Has this Year Been the Rock & Roll-est Year Ever?
It has been for me. And not always in the most pleasant of ways! There have been lots of things getting my attention. I’ve been releasing sadness from the loss of two family members, dealing with another illness of a sister. Ups and downs and lots of unconscious material coming to the surface.
Can you relate?
We call that contrast. It’s the contrast to what is desired. Please don’t misunderstand, contrast is not bad. It’s not to be avoided, and it is not wrong. Contrast is part of the human condition in our free will universe. Without contrast life would be bland. We’d have no distinctions. Contrast: here/there, up/down, want/have, fear/peace, confused/clear.
If there was no contrast, there’d be no distinctions, no differences, everything would be the same. How boring! It’s true when contrast is intense we want a break in the extreme contrast. That’s why I’m writing this post to show you how you can take it a little easier and to share how the gift of contrast can be used for clarity.
Clarity through Contrast
We note that sometimes things show up that we don’t really care for and that causes us to feel negative emotion. As deliberate creators we do well to remember the function contrast. Contrast helps us clarify what we want. This “something” has our attention. We focus on that annoying, scary (contrasting) situation. However, because we know the thing that has our attention is some thing we don’t want, we’re now in the perfect position to clearly define what it is we DO want. Clarity through contrast.
Here are Three Clarifying Questions designed to help you be attractive to what you want.
Powerful Question #1
“What do I want?”
Make sure you’re getting clear on all the details of what you want. Enjoy the specifics of what you want. If you start to get the “Yeah, Buts,” back it down to a more general desire until you can clear out some of the resistant thoughts, emotions and beliefs.
Powerful Question #2
“Why do I want it?”
Most of us answer this question backward. We answer why we ‘don’t’ want it. Like this: I want a loving relationship because I’m sick of being alone on Saturday nights. Plus, it’s cheaper to live as a couple. Can you see why stating more of what you don’t want stops the attractor factor?
State WHY you want what you want in compelling, high energy descriptions. Write it down so you can reference those exact details for the next step.
Powerful Question #3
“How will it feel once I have it?”
This is the Golden Nugget. Describe how you will feel once you have what you want – now you’re actively in the attraction mode. You’re vibing to the energy of already having it. Play in this space daily. Stay there for 30 seconds at a time. Engage all the senses, really feel it. Imagine calling your best friend and telling her with excited enthusiasm “Guess what….. ?” As if it just arrived!
That’s how to really ramp up the attractor factor. Stay with this practice. Manifestation is not instant for most of us. Make it fun, keep your attention focused on how it feels to have it. Our biggest work as deliberate creators is to stay in the higher vibe ranges of trust, appreciation and expectancy.
For more Deliberate Creation Tools on how to become even more attractive to your desires, join me this Saturday, December 17 at 4pm EST. Sign up to attend my “Design & Live the Life of your Dreams” free Teleseminar.
I’ll be sharing a very generous offer on how you can work with me LIVE for free, but you must be live on this call.
By the way, I will send around a replay of the “Design & Live the Life of your Dreams” Teleseminar. You must sign up to be eligible for that replay link.
Why not make 2012 a year of Deliberate Creating?
I’d love to hear more about your successful deliberate creating success stories. Please share with us below. It helps us all to hear about the tips that worked for you! Thanks.
Many Blessings to you!