Sep 11
22
Why Master Your Mindset?
Why master your mindset? Why not?
Why not use the single most miraculous part of our human physiology to win at life? We were all born to thrive. It just seems as though big pieces of the puzzle have been left out making it difficult to assemble a workable picture.
It’s not your fault. Most of us weren’t taught to use our magnificent brain and think creativity. We don’t utilize anywhere near our potential. You know GIGO? Garbage in, garbage out. I don’t know about you, but this is how I was taught in school. Facts, dates or wars, dates of inventions, all manner of information with no apparent relationship to historic time periods, or cultural climates – no context for what it means in a way that matters – at least certainly not to a school aged youngster. At least that was my experience.
Then we wonder why 1) things don’t change much (or slowly devolve) 2) why it’s hard to ‘show initiative’ and 3) why buck the current when the status quo has been so deeply entrenched the old guard of thinking.
It’s A New Day
Ever heard of “the Shift”? It’s a shift in consciousness. It’s the acceleration of the evolution of consciousness. Brain science is teaching us that it’s possible to expand our brain capacity and thereby accelerate our mind’s capabilities.
New mental abilities give us abilities to access new information. New paradigms start to arise. New paradigms give us new ways of expressing new thought, new solutions, new possibilities, perhaps even a new language. It’s time. In fact, it’s looooong overdue.
Old Games – New Games
Outmoded belief systems keep the dog chasing his tail. The construct of winning and losing keeps belief in scarcity; competition for resources, even for attention and affection, as only available for the few, the strongest; survival of the fittest.
Consider it’s time for a new game. A new earth. Imagine if we were all encouraged to dream big? What if, alongside learning the rudiments of education, we were taught to solve problems with the highest and best in mind? Sure some excel in areas, where others don’t. I’m not saying that there’s no differentiation. I am saying that everyone has a unique contribution – everyone gets to shine.
Mindset Mastery as Possibility
When you begin in the inquiry of “what’s possible”, you activate new neural protein combinations. You activate non-local universal mind. Imagine amplifying your mental abilities to attract more solutions to problems, to receive more answer to questions, to allow more finding to what you’re seeking.
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Speaking of Women’s Health…
You may know that last week I was invited to be part of a special event in Raleigh, NC called “Speaking of Women’s Health.” I joined 9 other local authors and closed the evening with a special song. If you read last week’s blog post, you’ll know that I had some “SHOULDS” (disempowering beliefs) in place from my training as an opera singer.
Well, here’s how my own personal mindset mastery lesson played out…
Oh boy, I forgot about constant air conditioning and blowing fans EVERYWHERE. In the triple digit summer heat that can wreak havoc on fragile little vocal folds. Dryness. Squeaks in the upper register. I’d been sleeping with the fan on me for weeks. Hydration at this point requires more than just water. What to do?
LOA Kicks In – (It Never Left)
What I’m putting my attention is expanding. Oh-oh. That spells NERVES. Great! So all the concerns, shoulds of last week start gaining momentum. Now what? Hope that on D-Day the dryness has lessened, and my cords are fine.
Work The Plan
The night of the Event, I have a restful sleep. A couple hours later, I test out my voice. Feels good except for the squeaks around F# and G (important notes for this aria). Okay. Steam. Right, I’ll steam. Too little, too late? [Internal dialog is sounding off, big time] What was I thinking? All the talking, no place to warm up at the venue, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.
Mental Mastery Kicks In
“Hold on, diva” I say to myself. You are masterful. You’ve dedicated over half your life to your vocal excellence. This is not the time to cave. Plus, Remember: fun, joy, self-expression, the love, and sharing? Remember WHY you do this? That’s right. I remember. And I know solidly what I can count on. I can count on my mastery, my training, my knowing, my love.
It turns out that not only did I nail it at the sound check. I nailed in a second time to close out the Event. People were on their feet. People were in tears. They told me how moved they were, about the chills they experienced. We had a shared love-fest experience. How perfect is that? Speaking of Women’s Health, and all the amazing people I met, I’d say life doesn’t get much better than that.
I’m so glad I know what I can count on. Mindset Mastery takes something. It takes a desire and a passion. The good news is that you start can building mastery muscles fast because the Universe recognizes and matches with your excellence, desire and passion.
Have you found something to be passionate about? Please share with us what turns you on, what lights you up and the ways you love to share yourself in the world. Id’ love to hear your thoughts.
Here’s to Joy and Mastery!
Jul 11
25
What’s Pushing Your Buttons?
Stimulus – Response
Like when you push a button (like a door bell) you expect a sound to go off telling you someone is at the door.
Same with our knee-jerk reactions, unconscious triggers and hot buttons. Something happens, someone does or says something and you respond with a typical or predictable response. Pretty unconscious, huh?
If you think about it anything (everything) that pushes your buttons is just an artifact from the past. That is, if it didn’t remind you of something, it wouldn’t trigger a familiar response.
If the Past Isn’t Useful Pass It By
If you had no reference point for the situation, you’d have reacted with curiosity rather than be reactive. We can always count on our brains to sort experiences into useful categories. The problem is, sometimes we want to stop the knee-jerk responses and find flexible ways of being.
Sometimes it’s useful to categorize events into “Like and don’t like” scenarios. Sometimes it’s limiting. As you know, I love researching about all the latest in brain science (especially Neuroplasticity) and mindset studies. We know that the more we stimulate our brains to experience new learning, the faster we can build the brain’s capacity for even more learning and resiliency.
I started thinking about how often something new and unique occurs in my life. I’ve started to look for areas in my life where I can expand myself, my talents, my interests. That in itself is peculiar since I typically hunker down for a long, hot summer. (And we’ve been experiencing weeks of record heat waves!)
But I actually feel refreshed with what I’ve come up with – the means of stretching myself outside my comfort zone.
Here’s what I’m up to:
- I’m singing an aria to end the Speaking of Womens’ Health event in Raleigh this week. You may think that since I was an opera singer, that’s no biggie. But #1: I haven’t been working on my voice, #2: I’ll be talking to folks for 4 hours before singing (talking is very wearing on the voice. It’s anathema to singing.) #3: I’ve just learned the aria (I’ve been familiar with it for years, just never sung it – ever!) And #4 – probably the most peculiar of all – it’s a tenor aria. That’s right. How unorthodox!!! But it fits so perfectly for this event.
As I was trained, you NEVER perform something you’ve just learned. And you ALWAYS ONLY sing what’s in your voice category. You may not grasp the depth of the “shoulds and supposed-tos” I was trained under.
I’m busting up mental barriers, baby.
- I’m joining Toastmasters in August.
- I’m creating a new Success Mindset Course for a fabulous group of network marketers I’m working with.
So I guess my plate is filling. What about you?
Break It Up Guys and Gals!
Try these on for size…
What could you do to fire off and re-wire some neurons?
Break up the routines. Find new ways to drive home from work. Go out of your way to start a conversation with a stranger.
Question the reactions. Ask yourself “Is it true?” “Are they really rude and inconsiderate? Or is it my interpretation of an event?” It could just be that your buttons are triggering old worn out additive responses. You can choose to think again.
What could you be curious about?
A humming bird? The origin of someone’s last name? A little Internet research on your favorite fruit? How about joining your kid and learning a new word a day?
Does it seem silly? Silly is good in my world. Silliness and breaking up old habits will keep you young, interesting, and vital for a looooooong time. Do I have any takers??
P.S. As I was posting this, a humming bird flew by my (2nd story) window. Cool!
Please share what you’re going to do to break up the old and wire in the new.
Jul 11
22
Is Your Life of Your Choosing?
It’s an interesting question, isn’t it?
Most of us cruise along enjoying our lives (more or less) until something we don’t like, don’t want or approve of shows up. Enter – the challenge to stay deliberate about life. Does life happen to you or is life of your choosing?
I know, you’re saying: “Well Nanette, of course I wouldn’t choose for someone to be rude to me” or “I’d never choose to lock my keys in the car.” In my experience, the only consistently powerful way to live is by choosing what shows up whether you like it or not.
“What? I don’t get it.”
Okay, let me explain. When you complain about what results you’re getting or not getting, you’re essentially arguing with reality. You make excuses or justifications as to why it’s the way it is, as though you had nothing to do with the situation. It’s a victim frame of reference.
Those of us who want to live powerfully and live a life of deliberate creation know that the Universal Operating System, (aka – The Law of Attraction) matches and manages all energy. So whatever is showing up into your life experience is a direct reflection of your energy; a belief, expectation or some other unconscious driver.
It’s a Good Idea to Know What’s Driving You
When you take the cue that what you’re experiencing is a direct reflection of an inner (conscious or unconscious) belief, you’ll be able to trace the breadcrumbs back to where you need to shine the light on. The belief in unworthiness, struggle or scarcity drives most of us.
Not to worry. The first step is to notice. The second step is to accept yourself (feelings, beliefs and all) completely. The third step is to focus on increasing your feelings of love for yourself – no matter what!
Easier said than done? At first it may seem a bit odd or difficult. But if you’ll take the time and acknowledge and listen to your feelings – just as you would a sweet 4 year old, trust me, you’ll being to access a lot of your personal power. A huge amount of energy is tied up in those beliefs in low self-esteem, fear and struggle.
You Are Love
Your essential nature is love. Read my last blog post titled “Abundance Is Your Natural State.” One of my favorite teachers, Arnold Patent tells us “Whenever we lock up energy, which is the source of our power, we feel that power diminish and our vulnerability grow. The huge amount of love that is bottled up by your anger is just waiting to be reclaimed.”
Choose your life, like yourself and reclaim your power. Love, joy and peace are the most powerful creative influences on the planet. The best thing of all is that love, joy and peace are our natural essence.
Make it easy, choose joy. Let joy be the means to the end. Joy creates more joy. You’re it!
Jul 11
18
Abundance Is Your Natural State
Do you wonder “how could that be?” when there doesn’t seem to be enough time or resources to go around?
I challenge you to consider that the belief in “not enough” is a fallacy.
“I’m not enough, I don’t have enough or do enough.” Have you ever thought or felt that way? I’m sure you have. It’s only human, after all. Well, I’m here to tell you that it just isn’t true.
Let’s Get Physical
Let’s get physical for a moment, shall we? The physical Universe is made up of energy. The non-physical Universe is also made up of that same energy. Sometimes we experience this energy as concrete stuff. Sometimes we experience this energy in other forms; via hearing, the sense of smell or even thought, feelings or emotions.
It’s accurate to say that this energy is neither created nor destroyed. It’s also accurate to say that there is a limitless abundance of this energy in the Universe. We’re made up of the same stuff – this limitless energy. Therefore, it follows that we are actually made of Abundance. Our true identity is Abundance. There is nothing about our life experience that is not made of this abundance and therefore abundant.
Scarcity Is An Interpretation
Lack is an interpretation, our often told, often taught story of not enough. And our judgments and expectations of scarcity and non-abundance holds anything less than abundant experience in place.
So you say: “Great, so all I need to do is change my interpretations of what I see and my experience will change?”
And I say: “Yes.”
You say: “Well, I’d like to do that, but the ‘reality’ is really getting my attention.”
I respond: “Riiiiiight.”
What’s reality anyway? If what you want is an abundant lifestyle, start looking for the evidence that you already have an abundant lifestyle. And trust me, you do. For those of us in the U.S., that should NOT be hard – I don’t care if you’re homeless! Homelessness in the United States, by comparison to other countries is a walk in the park. And I know that those of you reading this are not living on the street.
Means and End Are One
Place your the majority of your thoughts (51% or more) on what you like, love, approve of, enjoy, appreciate and the means will become the end. The Universe is here to support us in all that we do. It’s called the Law of Attraction. It’s supporting you no matter what you think and feel by giving you more of what you pay attention to. The Law of Attraction only verifies what you’re transmitting and lovingly responds by sending more stuff like it.
Don’t Watch Your Thoughts
Instead watch your feelings. Practice appreciation and you won’t have to watch anything except the wonderful gifts that start showing up in your life. Genuine appreciation is attractive and feels good. When you feel good, you gain access to all that is good. The means (feeling good) and the end (good things) become one. You are more powerful than you realize and the world is waiting for you to show up into that. The only thing stopping you is you. Find like-minded people, join a new thought community, hire an law of attraction coach.
Remember, the Universe is supporting you because your natural state is abundance.
Jul 11
11
Radical Concept
Have you ever had the same situation happen to you more than once in a short period of time? You’ve heard the saying “good things come in threes, bad things come in threes”.
I don’t know which it is, but the thing about repeated patterns is that it gets our attention. I think that’s the most significant thing about threes.
Recently information has come to me in threes. It’s not that it’s brand new information. It’s just that it caught my attention in a new way, so I thought I’d share it with you. I heard this information in an audio message, in a written email, and in a book I’ve been re-reading.
What I’m going to share with you in a minute is a straightforward concept. It’s a plain and simple concept.
But you’ll agree with me when you find out what this Radical Concept is, that it’s one of the most difficult concepts, dare I say practices, we may come across.
What is this Radical Concept?
It’s Like Yourself.
That’s it! Approve of yourself, like yourself for no good reason.
What little voice just whispered in your ear just now?
“Like myself. What? Why should I? I haven’t reached my goals this month or last month.”
Try it. Say to yourself … “I Like Me.” “Hey, I accept you just as you are.” “I approve of you.”
Try it once again. This time with feeling. Spend 30 seconds doing this in the mirror and notice what comes up.
I tried this many years ago and at first what came up for me was “Why should I?”
A lot of unworthiness stuff started to surface. And honestly, I abandoned the whole practice. I just couldn’t face myself in the mirror and approve of myself – for all manner of reasons. Sad, right?
Today is a different story. But I still have to remind myself to like myself exactly as I am. And it’s a whole lot easier. I like me. I’m adorable. I crack myself up. I get a kick out of me sometimes. I like me for no good reason now.
What about you? Do you like you? Just play with it and try it on. If you want to become more magnetic to your desires, you MUST like you! It’s the at the core of all worthiness and allowing in all your desires.
You may wonder why I say ‘LIKE’ and not ‘LOVE’
When you meet someone for the very first time, if you feel a connection or an affinity for them, you will naturally like them first. Like may turn to love, it may not.
The radical concept of liking and approving of oneself needs to be stepped into for most of us. If you have unworthiness issues, self-love may feel like a quantum leap. If it does, start with self-like, self-approval. Like yourself for no good reason.
Some of you may already love yourself. If you do, please share with us how you got to the point of deep, self-love. I’d love to hear about it. I believe it’s true that love makes the world go ’round.You will have significantly altered your vibration to a much higher rate. You’ll be transmitting powerful positive energy into the world!
Like yourself and then go out into your day. See what new gifts show up.
For many of us, 100% self-acceptance is a Radical Concept. What’s your experience? I’d love to hear your thoughts and experiences about self-like and self-love.
Thanks in advance for sharing!
Jul 11
5
Drama Queen Advisory
Do you know any Drama Queens? Have you ever been a Drama Queen?
I would have never thought of myself as one. But, guess what? It’s time to confess.
I have a sign hanging above my office door that says” “Drama Queen Advisory.”
My husband found it on a recent vacation. At first, I didn’t like the idea of hanging it there, thinking “I’m not a Drama Queen. Why would I claim to be an advisor”? He said: “C’mon, In the past you’ve been a drama queen. Heck, isn’t that what Grand Opera is all about”? (You may know that I used to sing opera.)
I had to admit it. He was correct.
It’s true I lived a large part of my life completely enrolled in the idea and attitudes of a Drama Queen. Having non-committed and long distance relationships was one way that all played out.
Oh, woe is me. I’m all alone. Where is he? That was my steady mantra.
I didn’t realize the Law of Attraction was lovingly supporting my attitudes by sending me more of what I was transmitting … more of “I’m all alone – Where is he?” kind of results.
Of course, my next step would be to distract myself and go unconscious. I’d spend money I shouldn’t, eat food I wasn’t hungry for, and do other things that were of a self-sabotaging nature.
It took me a really long time to take responsibility for what was and wasn’t showing up in my life.
What about you? Are you a Drama Queen? Do you spend time with Drama Queen friends?
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Do you Have a Declaration of Independence?
On what topic are you declaring your independence to or from?
The Declaration of Independence. July 4, 1776 Wow. 235 years ago.
We hold these truths to be self-evident (do we really?), that all men (and women) are created equal(-ish), that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights (Amen), that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.
Now we may have something to work with.
Two hundred and thirty-five years later, we’re distinguishing what it means to be endowed by our Creator with unalienable (or inalienable) rights.
As Wikipedia’s definition tells us …
Inalienable means: Not able to be transferred to another. Considered to be self-evident and universal. They are not contingent upon the laws, customs, or beliefs of any particular culture or government.
and
Rights are legal, social, or ethical principles of freedom or entitlement; that is, rights are the fundamental normative rules about what is allowed of people or owed to people, according to some legal system, social convention, or ethical theory.
In my work with clients and my daily work with myself, I consistently review where I/we derailed energetically. Where we veer off the road into someone else’s distractions and our own projections. We may set a goal, desire or intention and then next thing you know it, we’re off to the races. Getting distracted, annoyed, and off track.
What can you Declare Independence from?
How about some of these …
I Declare Independence from knee-jerk reactions.
I Declare Independence from self-criticism.
I Declare Independence from cultural conditioning.
I Declare Independence from drama.
I Declare Independence from thinking “I can’t” or “I shouldn’t.”
These are good declarations for me. What about you? What could you declare for yourself?
Two-hundred and thirty plus years ago, the founding fathers put very powerful language in place to form the basis of a new country. We, in North America are part of that cultural heritage. And oddly, this ideal goes yet unrealized.
Escape to a Higher Order
Systems theory tells us that when an existing system breaks down it either reorganizes on a higher level of functioning (i.e., ‘escapes to a higher order’) or it becomes extinct.
We note that many systems in the world are not adapting so well. We either integrate and adapt, change the existing order, or go extinct. Essentially “Regenerate or Die”.
It’s Our Heritage As Co-Creators
We ARE endowed by The Creator to live in peace, joy, freedom, self-expression, and abundance. Are we choosing that? Or are we taking what is handed up in terms of old ‘shoulds, have tos? Have you caught the hypnosis of cultural conditioning? Don’t feel bad, we all have.
Now We’re Waking Up
It’s time to Declare, Claim, Say Yes, Affirm DAILY the kinds of life you want, what is no longer acceptable to you; toxic relationships, overwhelm, too much TV, procrastination, food, or shopping. It’s time to escape to a higher order. Choose it. Be intentional. Declare it. Claim it. It’s yours for the allowing.
We are endowed by our Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness. Just because. So Be the Cause of your own Life, Liberty and Happiness.
Here’s to your Declarations of Outrageous Independence!!!
And Please share some of your Declarations with me. Thanks : )
Jun 11
11
Mindset Mojo – More Joy
Here’s a local talk I gave a couple weeks ago on Mastering Your Mindset Mojo.
If you’re the kind of person who wants to break free from limited thinking and finally get whatever you want in life …
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If you’re wondering “Why am I not where I want to be?” – This Mindset Mojo training is for you.
It’s in the wiring – not your fault at all.
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I’d love to hear what you have to say. Please share your thoughts!
“Why do some things (like a love relationship) take longer to manifest? And how do you know whether you’re blocking what you want to flow to you?”
One of my readers recently asked me that exact question.
Here’s my answer in the form of another question.
How much time every day do you fret, worry and wonder “when, how or even IF the love of your dreams is going to show up”? Do you wonder if you need to move to a new city, or into the city or out of the city? Do you think it might have been the guy or gal you dated last year? You tell yourself … “I guess 75% of the package was there. Perhaps that’s good enough. Maybe I AM too picky”.
Well, I’ve got news for you. It’s not uncommon to feel that way and think those kinds of thoughts.
When we’re in new territory it’s easy to get locked into the intellect. We question, fret, and second guess ourselves. That’s precisely why it takes so long. Furthermore, you’re unaware of how much of your energy you’re spending doubting and second guessing.
The Universe faithfully matches your energy and gives you more situations that match what you’re transmitting “indecision, second-guessing, and frustration.”
I’m here to tell you that you can have it ALL in your love relationship. Does that mean the he or she is going to be perfect in every way? Nothing is perfect. But he or she will be perfect for you! This is what partnership and deliberate co-creation is all about. Playing and creating in partnership so we can expand ourselves in more of the wonderful ways we intended to before we got here to life on planet Earth.
If what you want is still not manifesting after 6 months or longer, you can bet that you’re blocking your desires to some degree.
Tips on How to Become Magnetic to Love
- Spend time imagining what it will be like WHEN (not if) you have what you want. What kinds of things will you do together? And how will you feel? Engage the senses and play in the energy of already having what you want AS IF it’s already yours.
- Write daily gratitudes about how happy you are now that you and your beloved are building a life together. Then spend at least 20 seconds visioning and feeling the energetic atmosphere of what that’s like. Do this daily.
Now you’re in the attraction mode. Now you’ve given the Universe something powerful to match. Become an energetic match to your desires. When your dominant vibration is about what you want, you’ll attract your ideal love.
Don’t take my word for it. That’s what I did. That’s what my clients do to manifest the love of their dreams. And you can too!
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